"I am saying yes to a moment in their childhood that won't ever exist again," she says. "It's certain it's a certainty that at some point in the future I will be undoubtedly willing to trade anything for one more minute with my kids yet here in the moment they're fighting against other people who are asking me if they can pick my brain." We love our families, but who do we give our time to them or random in positions? How much of it do we waste out of a lack of self-control out of insecurity?