How to Use a Strap on for the First Time

i prefer not to be the one wearing the strap on that's just my general preference. i actually often recommend kamil exactly what you did which is you don't have to put it on for the first time when a partner is present put it on by yourself look at it in the mirror play with it give yourself a hand job whatever but you can familiarize yourself with wearing it even outside of the context of sex and many people do. I've worn a strap but i've never played with one like i've worn one like for like fun and like danced around with it um But i've never like played with it so this first time question is like i think a good one for me