Non Violent Communication Is Designed to Meet Our Needs

Non violent communication is designed to help us to meet our own needs. Our strongest need, according to victor frankl the austrian psychiatrist, boils down to serve life. Unless we think we're being forced to do it, unless we think somebody's going to criticise or blame us if we don't do it, then any action takes the joy out of it. For example, my brain was programmed with a rearly, tragic way to give people language. It involved the use of this very dangerous phenomenon called the verb to be. I hope your brain wasn't programmed that way.