Roommate and business partner ed milett says all the time, it doesn't happen to us, it happens for us. And i'm a believer in that. I mean, n like, dude, there is horrible things. There's horrible fucking things that some of you guys have gone through. Losing a child, right? Like shit. But maybe you can be of help to some one else who also is going through the same thing or you. Now, im saying all kinds of little things that won't necessarily remove the trama that happens from that, but will help you find some good in that t won't be in vain. That's fuckenas. Yes,