Olhtys: We seem to have a very strong instinct towards regarding sexes being special. He says that any kind of political project based on the idea that we can undo human nature is one that's doomed to failure. But also there's something like the, for small example, i was raised in very conservative culture, and i was very unattractive to men who had long hair. And then when i moved to like, aliberal culture, after a while, i started to become attracted to men with long hair,. I did not think bat those possible.