The Problem With the Spartan Model of Marriage

Is there a default here that if not strongly justified, you should just skip it, because there's substantial harms possible? Yeah. I mean, for me that's one of one of the one of the problems with that is just that that contradicts the idea of sacredness. The whole point of the sacred is the more we try to resist it, the more whatever powers us. Even without invoking the sacred it's just a common perception line ring many people that you can't just stop people from having sex they're going to do it one way or another.