You Know, I'm a Man in His Mid Forties, Longing for the Elder Man

Frida Ghitis: Why do you suppose it takes that for us men to be defeated before we really show up and hit some bottom? Ghitis: There is no arrival, there's no even retu sense of belong until the whole house comes with me. We are thrown into that territory not out of a sodistic sense, but out of a necessity to weave that part into our being. She says if i am so busy improving the self, oftentimes i neglect the soul. Ghitis: Humble humility is what makes us recognize the commonality that we all share.