Is It a Big Deal or a Little Deal?

gregor: I really think it comes down til you have to decide, as you are irritated, is thits a big deal or a little deal? If we're going to try to manage and talk through in process every little irritation, i mean, one i can promise you your relationship is in trouble. And that's what i need to then address. So if aron is leaving every light on, if she's stacking things in several piles around our house, i have to decide,. how fa deal is this for me? Is it worth talking about? Gregg: The truth is, there has to be room for both people. We've got to figure out these wind wind solutions.