"I have ike such little patience for this. It's like, really, it feels like somebody stepping on my field of honor, dudes," she says. "A photographer's job is to walk through their day looking deeply at things and noticing ... So that's what women do in our families." She asks: Are men just walking around not noticing shit because they don't feel responsible for grabbing it in the first place? 'If you are someone who shows up to your family and expects sweet, magical moments so much that they have become mundane'