Love Bombing and Ghosting Are Both Abusing

I hate hinge because it really forces you to put yourself down. I am the queen of putting myself out there and it's like... At first, I was so confident with it, but now that I've been burnt a couple times, I'm like, I actually am never putting myself out There. So this all comes down to where we think that love bombing and ghosting are abusive,. But we can't extend that concept to the idea that breaching someone's right to privacy or doxing them is also abusive. We treat doxing like it's a means to some sort of moral end when in fact all it does is expose that the public can be just as if not more