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172: Dealing With Attachment Styles + Will They Ever Change?

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

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Are You Enabling Their Behaviour, or Helping Someone Grow Out of It?

If someone does something you don't like, and you bring it up in a constructive way, how do you know whether to say this is not going to work between us? We talked about six different ways. And what that point was getting at was the idea that if every time one does something we don't like,. we're passive about it, or we argue about it, but then we don't actually do anything. There are no consequences to it. We just forget it ever happened after the argument. Then, in a sense, we're always enabling that behaviour. It's either being passive and not speaking up, or we're arguing, but showing that ultimately, they can keep doing

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