The Importance of Good Memories

How can you tell the difference between someone's delusion of themselves or narcissism? We have very bad poor memories and we're full by by a whole bunch of things. People impress you so much they probably can't even be in the room like your presence no i there's this famous story um about uh about konun o brian when he would go into the writer's room of a show that he was producing  they'd be really creative but when he came in everyone would be really intimidated.