Is It Okay if I Put My Penis in You Now?

The realities of consent are that it's very um and I'm not talking about gray areas where I thought she said yes but she was thinking no. She could get stripped down naked and stop. That's happened also to me many times. But like I'm talking about just the decision itself internally that the woman makes. It's not a light switch thing man. You know over the course of periods of time based on either changes in their thought patterns or decisions about certain things or new information about you. And they're all obviously we know they're all valid. This isn't discussion about like consent or this is more discussion of why would she change her mind right?