People need to be taught stuff, basic things about how sexuality works. We should all know what our body parts are and every single human should be taught the basic idea that every one has autonomy over their own body. That's what sex positivity is, is just basic bodily autonomy for every single human. Information is missing. But then there's the big emotional shift that has to happen to under gird the basic knowledge.
Sex is such a big part of being human. It's how our species persists, but it's also so much more than that. So why do we feel so uncomfortable talking about it? Emily Nagoski is a sex educator who argues that learning how to talk openly about sex — and unlearning some damaging misconceptions— can give you access to a more authentic and fulfilling sex life. She has a Ph.D. in health behavior, clinical internship experience at the Kinsey Institue, and is the author of the best-selling book “Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life.” To learn more about "How to Be a Better Human," host Chris Duffy, or find footnotes and additional resources, please visit: go.ted.com/betterhuman