Don't Do That, That's Not OK

Children are unable to compartmentalize, well, this is just about my behavior. They really feel it in their whole heart and body that they don't like what i did. So the most i would say is something like, what do you think made you hit? And then with the other child who's been hurt, i would do something similar. Maybe tel, could you tell your sister what you wanted, instead of ino trying to grab it away? That's the little bit of coaching that will help both of them.