When people put their lives together and they really don't blieve in themselves, there's something that i call the rubber band of self development. So it's like i'm tied to a tree, and i'm tied by a rubber band. The harder i walk away from the tree, the rubber band snaps me back even harder. And i've seen this time and time again with people who start toput their lives together. You get out of your depress, you clean your house, you apply for a job, you go to work. But then suddenly you're like, something panics. Then you stop showing up at work. You stay at home, you play video games, you