What to Do When Your Spouse Hates Sex
Conversations with Dr. Jennifer
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The Importance of Understanding Your Partner's Limitations
She would likely go into a story of either victimhood of you and your stupid sexuality now you're going to divorce me over it. Wherever his vulnerabilities are if he loves to be the nice guy gets played by false hopes wherever he is vulnerable she'll likely intuitive it doesn't not because she's evil I want to be really clear this is what couples do all the time this is just couples this is marriage. Yes people know how to work their partner's limitations so they don't have to deal with their own. He knows how to relate to her in that way knows how to feel like a victim to her feel the superiority of his frustrated position which feels much easier than actually dealing with the
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