Heart Types Make Things Personal

All nine types are built on a faulty assumption about the world. Heart types often have this assumption, i need to do something to earn love. This is part of what you gues were talking about, the self-fulfilling prophecy which doesn't end well. So en heart types make things personal. Problems in relationships are created around expectations and other people's feelings. And for heart types, there is o need for mirroring, connected to what be explained happens from childhood. But when in adulthood, we still depend too much on mirroring,. It's because something has not yet been developed, and that is self esteem, self appreciation, and an ability to find out who i am