How Did Things Go When?

I left the church in may, maybe june and didn't tell them until november. I wanted to make a safe space for our kids one day to be able to have their own nusanced ideas. And it's going to take some time to get used to that idea. So i told them in a text, in a group text, to my mam and dad. Itold my parents the next day, after i read all the truth,. claim avoid, let your emotions cool down for 365 days. There's no right way for anyone, for sure. Im grieving the child, that the loss of the child she thought she had a and i understand.