Is This a Genuine Friendship?

In the real world outside of this podcast, we are friends with all sorts of people that may not be emotionally safe for us. It's just a matter of like, is this a genuine friendship or is it queer desire? Is it romance? You know, B, are you valuing your comfort and your energy and your, what you're putting into this as much as you're valuing what Mary wants, what Mary needs to thrive or whatever?"