Is There a Kink World Out There?

When I was very young I was like eight or nine and I wanted to read my mom's romance novels The Baudest Rippers. My earliest fantasies were absolutely the damsel in distress been kidnapped by the bad guy but the very like in control domineering man. So you know did I understand there was a kink world out there? No I did it because it was something I had you know kind of seen and was like oh this is you know and did it that way.