When You Ask for Something, You Feel Sexy

If you have the understanding that asking for something is going to make you needy, then you may come across needy. What came to mind for me right away was, like, sexyand confident. And i think that if you were to go in voicing the same needs in a sexy, confident way, it would be more natural to the nature of what sex is truly supposed to be. You can ask something in a really sexy, confidence way, and you could still get shut down.