When you expect the worst from people, you want to create that situation for yourself. And I think that almost leads to you not being a nice person. It's also about like unlearning. In your twenties, you're going to have like shit relationships. People who are going to treat you badly. When you meet someone who's actually nice, it's like you have to unlearn all the patterns that allowed you to kind of like survive. Totally. That time in which you were like, oh, this is what I deserve.

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