How to Replace Laziness With Quality of Life

"I don't think the proper word is defiance then I think it's laziness sort of wrapped in the cooler version of modern day laziness. We're going to call it defiance because it sounds tough." "If you are defiant to your partner, again, that's another question, like why am I being defiant to my partner? What has my partner done to me that has caused me to really want to be defiant?" 'You and I are connected because both of our goal is to build a relationship and to build a life that we want to have'