
E232: Trick or Treat: The Bedroom Edition
Pillow Talks
Change bedroom lighting color to intensify orgasms
They test blue versus red lighting, explain lack of scientific basis for stronger orgasms, and recommend red or candlelight for a sexy, calming vibe.
This week’s episode is a little spooky, a little silly, and a whole lot of sexy.
Since Halloween is tomorrow, we’re bringing you a “Trick or Treat: Smash or Pass” edition of Pillow Talks. We’re running through a list of playful, sometimes weird, and definitely conversation-starting ideas for you and your partner to try in the bedroom (or… maybe not).
From holding water in your mouth during a BJ to wrapping your partner up like a mummy to switching positions every 60 seconds like it’s a HIIT workout… nothing is off-limits in this one.
Some ideas are pure gold, some are questionable at best, and a few? Let’s just say they’re better left in the graveyard of “good intentions.”
💛 In this episode, you’ll hear:
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The spookiest sex trends we’ve ever been dared to try
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Which ones are worth a “smash” and which deserve a hard “pass”
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Why experimentation keeps things exciting — even if it’s a total fail
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How to decide what’s a hard pass vs. worth a try
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Why laughter and curiosity are the sexiest ingredients of all
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A few ideas that might just become your new Halloween tradition
If your sex life could use a little more fun (and a few more giggles), this one’s your invitation to play.
🔥 Ready to learn new moves that actually work? Skip the spooky stuff and get straight to the good stuff inside The Ultimate Sex Guide, our fan-favorite resource that’ll help you feel confident, connected, and completely in control in the bedroom.
You’ll get:
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Expert-backed techniques for better pleasure (solo and together)
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Real-life tips to improve communication and confidence
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Step-by-step guides to explore what really turns you on
👉 Grab The Ultimate Sex Guide and unlock your hottest tricks yet! http://vmtherapy.com/ultimate
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