Are You Not Fully Invested in Them?

When i went through a transition externally, very little changed. Externally, a was still engaged in the academic world for three more years after that. I didn't fully realize that that wasn't right me any more. Took time. There was just peace in the background. And occasionally the pull towards unhappiness came a few times, like a pull on your sleeve, in the form of a thought. Come this way, follow me, says the unhappy thought. That says something about you and your life. They are recognized as thought patterns condition mind. So is no longer ego.