You say the easiest people to fall in love with are those about whom we know nothing. In your book, how priest can change your life, you ask this question: How long can the average human expect to be fully appreciated? And the answer is often as little as one quar of an hour. So we metabolize love. We metabolize everything that's right. But that's why, the less information there is, the more our unconscious can hold on to it.
Debbie talks to Alain de Botton about love and sex.