Are My Partners Problems, My Problems Too?

Sierra: I think that your concerns about how he is treating her are real because they deeply affect your understanding of how he's going to treat you, right? Like what if you get to the nine month mark and now he's no longer sort of this kind supporting person, but is saying really mean things to you or being rude with you. You're experiencing it through Mallory's lens of her own experience of it, which may be very similar to or very different from Daniels. So it's just like a really shitty place to be in.