The Importance of Discernment

One of the why we make vows right absolutely so that if I choose not to fulfill them I have a community that didn't it really tells me you made this vow. One of the one of the most helpful pieces of advice I ever had in discernment before I entered the monastery. Father Michael said to me probably 10 years ago. You need to know that if you become a nun or if you get married you're going to fall in love. Knowing that that this will pass knowing that like whatever I'm feeling right now is not what I'll feel for the rest of my life.