We have to be so careful starting things. But there are small things you can do for us. I remember having this my parents are with us every Christmas and they are gift people. So what if we give mom and dad Christmas Eve? What if Christmas Eve is when they do their presents because that's a calmer time like the kids don't have other gifts around so they're not distracted. And then Christmas morning is the free for all right. It's just knowing yourself enough to know what actually is going to feel like I can breathe well. Yes. Also deciding on quantity like 70% of people their primary feeling during the holidays is stress over not having enough time and stress over not