Don't do self-deprecation out of context. If she's going down a negative subject matter, right, which you know is not going to build attraction, you can interrupt her and introduce something new. She doesn't want to talk about her boss. She's just getting emotionally trapped in the torrent of her emotions. So these are all really important guys. First one is agree and amplify. The real question is, third one is misinterpret and the fourth one is completely ignore. I talk about them often on my podcast, but more specifically in my coaching program.

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