Is Your Reticulum at Work?

We all have this part of our brain are our reticular activating system or are yes for short. Your r s is like a filter between your conscious and your subconscious mind so whatever you think about consciously. And what's really scary is that the r s because it's so efficient will filter out anything that doesn't match. So when she's appreciative when she's loving when she's saying wonderful things to me, I am like just right doesn't even stick. Hence every argument you've ever had where one person is saying like you don't appreciate me and the other person's like, I just told you yesterday and I thought it and that right.