Do You Love Me? Or Do You Like Me?

People are trying to read us. So instead of asking a question like, do you love me? Maybe it's more effective to say, tell me about the time we went on this date and, you know, what is it about this date that you actually enjoyed? That's right. What about this date? Don't ask people whether you're good in bed, ask what about you in bed they like or dislike? And what about that you're cooking? You know, they like or disliked specifics are better.