What Do You Do When You Face Comparison and Competition?

I followed jamie ivy on instagram as well, and when you were introduced at passa, she panned over. And like, all your friends that flew from all over to be there to support you. I honestly was just happy that you had such good friends in your life. But i dol, look, what do you do when you encounter competition and comparison? Cause for girls it is such a big deal. My 12 year old shows up every day with her own version of the same thing: "She's very fragile," 'she doesn't want to do it' She has also been working through some issues relating to work which have left her feeling confused about where God