The Social Consequences of Oversharing with New Friends
Friend Forward
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How to Build a Genuine and Deliberate Relationship
Oversharing as a means to test others, it's not productive to building genuine and deliberate connection. When you overshare or you open up too much in the first conversation to test if people will care about you, you fail to realize that they don't have anything else to go on about you but the trauma dump. But again, since we want to fast forward closeness, we're jumping all the way to intimacy without history. People endure our quirks because they have come to care.
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