In this chapter, they discuss the importance of feeling acknowledged and loved. They talk about how growing up, their parents were too preoccupied with their own lives to fully acknowledge their existence, which has led to a strong need for validation in their profession as a comedian. They also discuss the high stakes of performing on stage, and how a lack of constant laughter can make them feel unnoticed and unimportant. They mention the role of their spouse as their constant confirmation of existence, and express admiration for their ability to love and appreciate.