Is There a Harmony Between the Houses?

I was thinking when you were talking about this, you know, complementarity and gender and all that and how people are so offended when you even try to tell them they're a man or a woman. Yeah, it's like sex I mean it's just it's like you're two and you're not two and you’re not one. But on the other hand, the limitation is is freedom like so if you if you can embody that limitation perfectly, then you're much more free than if you're trying to be every kind of multiplicity. If somebody else is trying to tell you of a system or tradition or a group or another person is trying to say, this is