Rachel Hollis: My promise that I had then and have today is the same, but looks slightly different in that my greatest core value is growth for me. But I will never again allow anyone into my circle who is not celebratory of that value in me. She says she's attracted to people who also are interested in evolution. "To be in a relationship with someone who is on a similar path than you when you've experienced the other is like a cool glass of water after being thirsty forever"