The closer someone is to you, the more they get your authentic self. So this is like when your mind tells you all kinds of stuff like, don't bother. It's a waste of time. No point in trying to hang out. G g nubes. If they are going to you're ready for it. Chat, here's the climax, find out eventually. These are all the rationaliz ons. This is what it tells you to protect against rejection.