Hidden Agenders Explained in Plain English

People are judging us all the time. They want to know whether we'll make good friends, allies, lovers or leaders. In each of these areas, our hidden agenders explain a surprising amount of our behavior. We're eager to look good, so we emphasize our pretty mot s and downplay are ugly ones. Why can't we just be honest with ourselves? The answer is that our thoughts aren't as private as we imagine.