The Importance of Being Unlovable

"It stopped me from living my life. I felt like I was always waiting," she says of feeling unlovable. "I often think of this as kind of the ouch moment when we sensed the landscape of our life and how many moments we've lost by not trusting ourselves." She asks her wise self to call that, thatwise self fully forward and to offer that to the part of her that felt unlovable. And she also calls forward what she thinks of as the divine mother, the love of the universe, to back her up.