You can't behold your own perfection until you see the perfection of everyone who's created like you, which is everyone. So that's where it's beneficial to be like, okay. I can't forgive my parents because there's a wounded part of me that needs their attention. Can I have compassion for that part of me? Yeah. Find the good. This is where Tara Brooke would say like, get in touch with your truest intentions. You're virtually here virtually quoting the course right now. But it's like if you change your intent,. It says like everything is real. There's something new for it. To the extent that it can help you remember your true self. And