You're the One Who Created Solomon's Paradox

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The link in our mind between a name and some one else super duper strong. The idea is that when you use your own to reflect on your problems, that's switching you into this coaching mode where you're not getting stuck in all those irrational thoughts. Are you the person who came up with the term solomon's paradox? Yois a paper with one of my students. We coin that phrase. You've got to share what that is, because i must have read about that six or seven years ago, and i have used it countless times because it's so brilliant. Great advice built clinton monkalino. Ad abraham lincoln struggled endlessly when it came to his own

Ethan Kross is one of the world’s leading experts on controlling the conscious mind. He is an award-winning professor at the University of Michigan and the Ross School of Business and also the Director of the Emotion & Self Control Laboratory. In addition to countless television appearances, Ethan’s research has been featured in the New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and many others.

In this episode, Ethan and Eric talk about his book, Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why it Matters, and How to Harness It.

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Ethan Kross and I Discuss How to Harness the Chatter in Our Head and…

His book, Chatter: The Voice in Our Head, Why it Matters, and How to Harness It
How we have both emotional and cognitive needs when dealing with the “chatter” in our heads
Common triggers for internal chatter are uncertainty and lack of control
The three main categories of tools to work with chatter
Learning to zoom out and broaden our perspective
Distance self-talk is talking to yourself like you’d talk to another person
Temporal distancing (mental time travel)
Expressive writing about negative experiences
Using your imagination to replay a past experience to gain objectivity
Harnessing our internal chatter rather than silencing it
How to think about thinking and what we can and cannot control
Being aware of how easy some of these tools are to implement
Creating if/then plans increases the likelihood you’ll remember to use the tools
Environmental tools and the benefits of getting outside in nature
How cleaning and organizing our physical space impacts our mental state

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