Being the Warrior in the Garden

In this special Father-Son Wednesday edition of the Dad Edge Podcast, Ethan and I have an open and heartfelt conversation about the kind of legacy we want to leave—not in terms of money, but in how we show up for our families, our faith, and our future. With Halloween around the corner, we explore the idea of what truly haunts fathers—missed moments, emotional distance, and failing to lead with purpose.

We dive into what it means to lead a family spiritually without pushing religion, how a father's love for his wife becomes a model for children, and how intentional home culture shapes future generations. Ethan shares his vision for his future family and career as a firefighter—and how he wants to lead by presence, not pressure.

[0:00] – Introduction

[1:15] – Ethan's "Winter Arc" and using seasons to spark growth

[2:59] – Redefining legacy beyond wealth or achievements

[5:14] – Why health and strength are crucial to long-term fatherhood

[8:32] – Spiritual leadership without religiosity

[10:04] – Passing down a relationship with God to future generations

[12:33] – Faith, emotional safety, and keeping an open mind

[15:21] – Ethan's vision of future fatherhood and home culture

[17:42] – How your home environment speaks louder than your words

[20:07] – The impact of loving your spouse well in front of your kids

[23:15] – Why we choose to gross our kids out with affection—not arguments

[24:49] – The power of being the "warrior in the garden"

[25:29] – Ethan's passion for firefighting and leaving impact

[27:56] – Halloween memories, safety tips, and shoutouts

1. Legacy Is Emotional, Not Just Financial

The mark we leave on our kids isn't in bank accounts—it's in the daily presence, protection, and love they feel from us.

2. Faith Is Modeled, Not Mandated

Ethan speaks on how he wants to raise his future family to know God through a relationship—not religion—and how that shaped his upbringing.

3. Your Marriage Is the Blueprint

How you treat your wife sets the tone for how your kids will approach love, commitment, and conflict in their own relationships.

4. Presence Over Perfection

Kids remember if you were there and emotionally available—not if you were flawless. Being the safe space is what sticks.

5. Strength Is Best When Softened by Love

Ethan reflects on the need for dads to be both strong and gentle—to be warriors in the garden, not tyrants in the home.

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