The Freudian Obsession With Parental Trauma

I think the Freudian obsession with linking everything to like parental trauma which you get on overdrive if you do any sort of like traditional therapy okay has valid and rational roots but at some point you have to just you know forgive yeah exactly. You have to integrate your shadow no matter what your parents do it's like I experienced this is when I started to feel more like my dad was like my brother, he says.