Switch From Attachment to Process Improvement

You can ask this both ways to realize where you're giving something too much time, energy or emotion compared to its importance. Does the amount of emotion i'm giving the socks on the floor match the importance of the socks? No, i'm giving it away more emotion because it's not important at all. How can i switch from outcome attachment to process improvement? So instead of thinking, i want to have the manuscript for book three done by x, y, z date, what can i do to improve the process of this next book?