The Night Watcher - Is She a Loader?

Many characters seek out the night watcher to receive this boon, but unknowingly be given this curse. I don't think with a hundred % certainty we can say anything about dallinar's boon or curse not having read oath bringer. Because it affects his memory, i don't know what aspects we can trust there. He's literally an unreliable narrator when it comes to his own experiences at the night with the night Watcher.