Should I Go on a Date, or Should I Just Swipe By?

i feel to all these date things are like conversations you're having in your own head. I have a lot of friends who are with their person for a long time and they'll be like, oh, yes, no, i mean, i didn't even really want to go,. or we planned it on a whim, or he started seeing somebody else and then he came back three months later. You know, the shitty thing is, like, those stories are pretty common. What happens is what's supposed to happen, and it's easy. But i kind of don't think that's true. And if you're sitting there like this person, that'seasy. There aren't any