How to Speed Up a Relationship

If we're not allowing us to be vulnerable, we can't show up to our relationship. Get honest about why you're asking your partner certain things or what you're hoping that their answer or act will do. If it's about looking for validation, where can you self-validate? examine your expectations and where they come from. Make sure that if you're going to be and do stuff, do it on the merit of this relationship and this partner.