Why Wasn't I Born?

We understand that human beings are biased, so we have scientific experiments to try to remove that bias. We can start the universe over again a million times and see if there are intelligent observers in those universes. Also, i feel like i et some surcas when the answer is that we just have this one universe. That's it. It's like you never question, why wasn't i born? It's always the question, why was i born exactly?"